Wednesday, January 31, 2007

The Proof is in the Policy (Not Piety)

This latest entry by Jim Wallis in the Newsweek/Washington Post series On Faith addresses the following question: As the presidential campaign begins to take shape, do you think it is appropriate and or important for the candidates to express their personal religious views and to use religious rhetoric? Why?

I have said and written many times that I think a good and fair discussion of how a candidate's faith shapes his or her political values should be viewed as an appropriate and positive thing – it's as relevant as any other fact about a politician's background, convictions, and experience for public office.

The more talk in political campaigns about values, the better, and religion is a primary source of values for many Americans. Minority religions and nonreligious people must always be respected and protected in our nation, but the core commitments of religious liberty are not compromised by an open discussion of faith and public life.

Having said that, I also say that it is important to remember that the particular religiosity of a candidate, or how devout they might be, is much less important than how their religious and/or moral commitments shape their values, their political vision and their policy commitments. If one's religious and ethical convictions don't shape a candidate's (or a citizen's) public life, then what kind of commitments are they?

In a democratic and pluralistic society, we don't want to evaluate candidates by which denomination or faith tradition they belong to (or whether they are a person of faith at all), and only vote for the candidate in our group. What's important is not how often they attended church or synagogue (like a tally of votes missed by a member of Congress), but rather the moral compass they bring to their public life and how their convictions shape their political priorities.

I also insist that political appeals, even if rooted in religious convictions, be argued on moral grounds, rather than as sectarian religious demands – so that the people (citizens), whether religious or not, have the capacity to hear and respond. Religion must be disciplined by democracy and contribute to a better and more moral public discourse. Religious convictions must therefore be translated into moral arguments, which must win the political debate if they are to be implemented. Religious people don't get to win just because they are religious (in a nation that is often claimed to be Judeo-Christian). They, like any other citizens, have to convince their fellow citizens that what they propose is best for the common good – for all of us and not just the religious.

Or, as Sen. Barack Obama put it at our 2006 Pentecost conference: "Democracy demands that the religiously motivated translate their concerns into universal, rather than religion-specific, values. It requires that their proposals be subject to argument, and amenable to reason."

Susan Jacoby, however, misrepresents all of this in the two paragraphs about my book she included in her response to this question. She takes two short quotes out of context and implies that by saying the answer to President Bush's "bad theology" is "good theology," I somehow think that the President of the United States should be the "theologian-in-chief." In fact, my critique of the president's theology was making the same point she is making. I wrote in God's Politics: "a president who believes that the nation is fulfilling a God-given righteous mission and that he serves with a divine appointment can become quite theologically unsettling. … Bush seems to make this mistake over and over again of confusing nation, church, and God. The resulting theology is more an American civil religion than Christian faith."

I criticize the president's theology as a Christian, in part because that is how he seeks to justify his policies. But then I argue my political points in the public square on the basis of a morally-based public policy. The two are complementary, not contradictory.

posted by God's Politics @ 2:00 PM

Tuesday, January 30, 2007

UNC






This past Saturday, Scott, Brayden and I were able to visit UNC Chapel Hill. Kalen, Madelyn and Julian spent the day with Scott's parents and Aunt Shanda (of course, they loved that).

We met one of my dear friend's mother, Virginia Ferguson in Carrboro. Virginia is a realtor. She gave a very informative tour around the area. We looked at neighborhoods, homes, shopping centers, parks, and of course the campus. Virginia did an amazing job! If anyone needs help in real estate within the Carrboro, Chapel Hill and Durham area, look her up on the web. We were overwhelmed, but in a good way.

As we left Ms. Ferguson, we met up with some of our dear friends, Brantley, Katie and their one year old, Eleanor. This sweet family lives in Durham. Brantley attends UNC. We had a sweet visit and it was nice to get some inside info from people that live there.

The campus is so nice. Carolina has a lot to offer. Scott, Brayden and I walked around the campus and actually visited the education building. There was so much to take in.

Overall, we were delighted with what we saw and experienced. It really set in with Scott and I, that we could be living there in a few short months.

There are a lot of questions to answer concerning going back to school. The Morrisons are not movers. It is not that we do not like change, we just love our life here in Boone. Scott is facing a huge decision that will change all of our lives. He is not taking this lightly. I am so thankful that he is such a thinker. He is very thoughtful about each decision he makes. I trust him and I know that he will meet our needs and care for us. I know his decision will be the best for all of us.

Monday, January 29, 2007

Roomtime


In our home, we have designed a time when our little ones have time alone in their rooms, we call this "roomtime". This is essential for me, as a mother of four. With each child it has been a wonderful chance for him or her to exhibit some independence. Now, I use this time to homeschool Julian and Madelyn. Over the years, the kids have done some really cute things during this time. Then, there have been the diaper explosions, coloring on drawers, and emptying all toy bins.

This morning, I found my two year old, Kalen, dancing in one of Madelyn's ballet outfits to the tune of Veggie Tales amongst his stuffed animals all dumped out all over the floor. I giggled and ran for the cameras. Priceless!! He is a character. He truly loves music and dance. He happens to be quite graceful. He surely wants to be like his big sister. In a way, that is darling. On the other hand . . . well you know. For now, we will laugh and dance with him. Thought you would enjoy the photo.

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Far away friends



Recently, my family and I have been able to visit with some friends that live far from our home. Mandy a very close friend from college came to North Carolina all the way from Washington. She was visiting for her mother's birthday and brought her sweet little girl, Abby. Brayden and I drove down to her folk's house and just spent some time with them. It was refreshing and sweet. Mandy is a dear and life giving friend.

Chris, a good friend from college came into town. He is now working with IMB (International Mission Board). We were able to have a meal with him and give him a little taste of our world here at home. He read a book to the kids before bed. After the kids went down for the night, Scott and I sat and chatted with Chris for a long while. Chris is an amazing and adventurous soul.

I have a lot of long distance friends. Over the years, these friendships have given me such comfort and love. Sometimes it is hard when I can't wrap my arms around them. Keeping up with these friends ( you know who you are) is a priority and will be my entire life.

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Homeschooling





For the Morrison family, homeschooling is our chance to raise and teach our children the way that we think is best. This is a freedom that we are thankful that we have. We are choosing to daily watch, train, teach, coach, love, encourage, correct, and inspire our children.

When did we start? We started when Julian was born (almost seven years ago). Each of our children have been born into this lifestyle. Every day, every moment presents an opportunity to learn and grow.

Why do I homeschool? I want to be with my children. I am their best teacher. I know them better and can accomodate them best. I want to give them one on one attention. My desire is that at the end of the day they do not feel defeated in any way but celebrated and supported. I want to give them the opportunity to follow their own interests and passions. The social pressures are not ideal in the public school setting. I can teach about Jesus and how radical he was. We have flexibility at home.

Creativity is not only okay in our homeschool but vital. Within our homeschool, we have the freedom to explore ideas, make crafts, draw, paint, imagine, and create. We can finish projects with no time restrictions. We can laugh, sing, dance, and make noise!

Scott and I want our kids to grow to be independent learners. We love a piece of advise that was given to us by R.C. Sproul Jr., "teach them to read and give them great books." That is what Mr. Sproul said homeschooling was all about for his family.

The most wildly used comment given to me, referring to homeschooling, is "I don't know how you do it, Anna." You know, it is not easy. I have a lot of hard days. I get stressed. My tank gets empty. I sometimes cry. However, I have hope. I know that what I am doing is what I, and Scott, think is best. I am very schedule oriented. I believe our whole family does better when we have a plan. For the most part, each day we all know what will be expected. This all helps me to keep the day flowing. I have wonderful friends and family that support and encourage me through every week.

I have posted some photos that capture a little bit of our homeschooling. There is a picture of Julian at the table with his encyclopedias. He decided he wanted to learn more about something, so he got out a paper and some books and started researching on his own. There is a photo of Kalen "reading" to Brayden. Another photo of Julian and Kalen with two buddies Price and Bryant. Julian has playdates with them weekly. Julian and Madelyn are doing an archeological dig out in our yard in one of the photos. We were studying about history and how we know what we now know about people in the past.

Monday, January 22, 2007

Vegan Children

I was checking out the PETA (People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals) website today and found this article. Just wanted to share.

Vegan Children: Healthy and Happy

Children raised as vegans—who consume no animal products, including meat, eggs, and dairy products—can derive all the nutrients essential for optimum health from plant-based sources.


Hot Wings, Heart Disease, and Sick Stomachs

Unprecedented rates of children raised on the “traditional” American diet of cholesterol and saturated fat-laden chicken nuggets, hot dogs, and pepperoni pizza show symptoms of heart disease, the number one killer of adults. A study in The New England Journal of Medicine found that at least 60 percent of children and young adults have early atherosclerotic (hardened artery) damage. It’s no wonder considering that hot dogs, sausage, and bacon are on the daily menu for a stunning 25 percent of kids between the ages of 19 months and 2 years.

The number of obese preschool-aged children and 12-to-19-year-old adolescents has more than doubled since the 1970s and more than tripled for 6-to-11-year-olds. Pediatricians are reporting an alarming increase in the number of children diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, a disease that typically affects adults, and 85 percent of those cases involve overweight kids.(4)

According to acclaimed pediatrician Dr. Benjamin Spock in his book Dr. Spock’s Baby and Child Care, “Children who grow up getting their nutrition from plant foods rather than meats … are less likely to develop weight problems, diabetes, high blood pressure, and some forms of cancer.”

Food-related illnesses affect more than 76 million people annually and kill more than 5,000. Farmed animals are fed 20 million pounds of antibiotics each year, which are designed to promote growth and prevent them from getting sick but which are retained in the flesh that people eat. Scientists believe that such involuntary consumption of these drugs by meat-eaters is giving rise to strains of bacteria that antibiotics are ineffective against when consumers become ill.

Salmonella poisoning alone affects at least 40,000 people each year (the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention suspects that unreported cases may increase that number 30 times), yet only one in 16 million chickens is tested for it. A Consumer Reports study of 525 supermarket chickens found campylobacter (which causes illness in more than 1 million people every year) in 81 percent of them and salmonella in 15 percent, with up to 84 percent of the bacteria resistant to antibiotics. Eggs pose a salmonella threat to approximately one out of every 50 people each year in affected areas of the U.S. E. coli is a type of bacteria that can be deadly to children and sickens more than 73,000 people each year, and the U.S. Department of Agriculture reports that half the cattle slaughtered for food in the U.S. are likely infected with it.

Fish flesh also presents health problems. Polychlorinated biphenyls (PCBs), residual industrial compounds that can still be found in the environment, have caused cancer in animals and skin problems and liver damage in humans. Fish flesh has been found to harbor levels of PCBs thousands of times higher than those in the water that they live in. Fish also accumulate methylmercury in their bodies, and pregnant women and children have been cautioned by the Environmental Protection Agency not to eat fish flesh that may contain high levels of this toxic substance.


Dangers of Dairy Products

According to Dr. Frank Oski, the former director of pediatrics at Johns Hopkins University, “There is no reason to drink cow’s milk at any time in your life. It was designed for calves, it was not designed for humans, and we should all stop drinking it today, this afternoon.” Dr. Spock agreed, saying, “There was a time when cow’s milk was considered very desirable. But research, along with clinical experience, has forced doctors and nutritionists to rethink this recommendation.”

Cow’s milk is the number one cause of food allergies in infants and children, according to the American Gastroenterological Association. Millions of Americans are lactose-intolerant, and an estimated 80 percent of African-Americans and up to 100 percent of Native Americans and Asian-Americans suffer from the condition, which can include symptoms such as bloating, gas, cramps, vomiting, headaches, rashes, or asthma. As early as 2 years of age, most people begin to produce less lactase, the enzyme that helps with the digestion of milk. This reduction can lead to lactose intolerance. Breast-feeding mothers should also shun cow’s milk from their diets, as the proteins can be transferred to infants and upset babies’ intestines.

Milk is suspected of triggering juvenile diabetes, a disease that causes blindness and other serious effects. Some children’s bodies treat cow’s milk protein as a foreign substance and produce high levels of antibodies to fend off this “invader.” These antibodies also destroy the cells that produce insulin in the pancreas, leading to diabetes. Studies have also found that autism and schizophrenia in children may be linked to the body’s inability to digest the milk protein casein; symptoms of these diseases diminished or disappeared in 80 percent of the children who were switched to milk-free diets.

Other common childhood ailments such as chronic ear infections, asthma, and skin conditions can also be eliminated if cow’s milk is avoided.

Nutrition in Vegan Diets

Nutritionists and physicians have learned that plant products are good sources of protein, iron, calcium, and vitamin D because they can be easily absorbed by the body and don’t contain artery-clogging fat. The American Dietetic Association states, “Well-planned vegan … diets are appropriate for all stages of the life cycle, including during pregnancy, lactation, infancy, childhood, and adolescence.”

• Protein: In the U.S., consumption of too much protein is a much bigger issue than not getting enough. Protein deficiency is common only in countries suffering from famine. Eating too much protein, however, can lead to cancer of the colon and the liver. Children can get all the protein that their bodies need from whole grains in the form of oats, brown rice, and pasta; nuts and seeds, including sunflower seeds, almonds, walnuts, and spreads such as tahini and peanut butter; and legumes, including tofu, lentils, and beans.
• Iron: Some babies’ intestines bleed after drinking cow’s milk, increasing their risk of developing iron-deficiency anemia, since the blood that they’re losing contains iron. Formula-fed babies should be fed a soy-based formula with added iron to minimize the risk of intestinal bleeding. Iron-rich foods such as raisins, almonds, dried apricots, blackstrap molasses, and fortified grain cereals will meet the needs of toddlers and children 12 months and older. Vitamin C helps the body absorb iron, so foods rich in both—such as green, leafy vegetables—are particularly valuable.
• Calcium: Cornbread, broccoli, kale, tofu, dried figs, tahini, great northern beans, and fortified orange juice and soy milk are all excellent sources of calcium. As with iron, vitamin C will help your child’s system absorb calcium efficiently.
• Vitamin D: Cow’s milk does not naturally contain vitamin D; it’s added later. Vitamin D-enriched soy milk provides this nutrient without the animal fat. A child who spends as little as 10 to 15 minutes three times a week playing in the sunshine, with arms and face exposed, will get sufficient vitamin D because it is synthesized in the skin when the skin is exposed to sunlight.
• Vitamin B12: Whereas other primates get their necessary vitamin B12 from dirt, unchlorinated water, feces, and insects, commercially available multivitamins will ensure an adequate amount of the vitamin for your child. Vitamin B12 is also found in fortified soy milk and many cereals.

What You Can Do
A healthy vegan diet is easy to plan and maintain. Products fortified with calcium, vitamin D, and vitamin B12 are available in most grocery stores. Mock meats are especially delicious and are also readily available in most grocery stores and many restaurants. For tips on tempting your kids with delicious vegetarian dishes, visit VegCooking.com and check out the following additional resources.

Friday, January 19, 2007

LEGO man




Julian, our six year old, has a genuine interest in putting things together. His grandma gave him a box of Legos called Creator. He can make several different dinosaurs with it. He has amazed us with his ability to follow these complex directions. He has made several creatures. I have shared a few photos with you.

Julian we are proud of this gift God has given you. This makes you unique!

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Just another day for me

Another day to wake up.
Another day to cook breakfast.
Another day to remind.
Another day to smile.
Another day to teach.
Another day to play.
Another day to remind.
Another day to tickle.
Another day to wipe.
Another day to giggle.
Another day to imagine.
Another day to feed.
Another day to need patience.
Another day to hold.
Another day to read.
Another day to drink.
Another day to cry.
Another day to wash clothes.
Another day to connect.
Another day to train.
Another day to need grace.
Another day to hug.
Another day to discipline.
Another day to be silly.
Another day to kiss.
Another day to frown.
Another day to change a diaper.
Another day to empty the dishwasher.
Another day to fold the laundry.
Another day to seek hope.
Another day to call a friend.
Another day to pick up toys.
Another day to prepare supper.
Another day to say "I love you."
Another day to give a bath.
Another day to kiss goodnight.
Another day to live.

Wednesday, January 17, 2007

Mahatma Gandhi said it well

"Be the change you want to see in the world."

Tuesday, January 16, 2007

more picures




Just a few more photos from our trip to UVA.

Virginia







This past weekend Scott, Brayden and I were able to visit Charlottesville, Va. My Mom and Annette offered to keep Julian, Madelyn and Kalen. With Scott's recent acceptance, we wanted to take this opportunity to see the University of Virginia and see what the town has to offer our family.

We all had a grand time. Virginia is gorgeous. The town of Charlottesville is very neat and clean. The downtown area is unique and a cool place to walk around. Charlottesville has every store you would hope a city to have. It even has a Whole Foods. Yes, we ate every meal there! The campus of UVA is breathtaking. It is very historical. Most of the buildings have columns. Virginia is full of mountains, farms and wide open spaces. We were in awe.
Scott spoiled Brayden and I by letting us stay at the elegant Boar's Head Inn. If you ever need to stay in Charlottesville, it would be a real treat.

Overall, we really like Charlottesville. The school is amazing, you can feel that just walking around it. We really have no negative responses, except it is four hours from family. For us, being close (an hour or two) to family is something we really value. I imagine, Scott could still go to UVA. We will wait, patiently, to hear back from the other three schools he applied to.

By the way, Julian, Madelyn and Kalen had such a great time with Grandma and Annette. Grandma sewed some really neat knight, king, queen and princess costumes for them all.

After a weekend away, we are glad to be home here in Boone.

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Advise on Raising Children

Help children to see and love the beautiful.

To develop self-reliance and strength,
a child should have as much liberty as possible,
as much as is consistent with the rights of others.

She should be treated with respect,
not laughed at when she makes mistakes
or tries to show off before visitors.

Let us not nag the poor little things.

As early as possible,
children should have tasks assigned to them
that they may be led to feel that mankind must work
and that even small children may help a little.

The habitual tone of a mother should be
suggestions rather than commands.

We can praise their work, say that it is well-done,
lovely, or beautiful, if we can do so truthfully*

I sincerely believe it would be a wise thing never to threaten.

The most important thing, then,
in training a child is to surround him,
to fill his life, with what is good.


-From Clara Ueland’s 1890 paper “Child Discipline”
Presented to the Mother’s Council in Minneapolis

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Siblings



Siblings are a true gift.

Tuesday, January 9, 2007

Parent Resolutions for the New Year

No matter what's happened in the past, you can raise happy, confident, and responsible kids starting right now
By Chick Moorman and Thomas Haller


In 2007, I resolve not to teach my children to have a happy, productive life, but rather to help them choose a happy, productive day.

I resolve to help my children appreciate that there is no such thing as failure, only temporary results that they can use as feedback to determine their next step.

I resolve to fix problems rather than fix blame by maintaining a solution-seeking mindset and teaching my children a problem-solving process.

I resolve to aid my children in their struggle with autonomy by creating a balance of power through a shared control style of parenting.

I resolve to remember that I want children to behave in ways that reflect what THEY find unacceptable, not in ways that I, the parent, find unacceptable.

I resolve to welcome interpersonal skill errors as learning experiences and as important opportunities to implement consequences.

I resolve to parent in a way that demonstrates that I believe the only authority children take with them everywhere they go is their inner authority.

I resolve to allow my responses to my children to reflect a knowing that some lapses in self-control are developmentally appropriate. I will remember that they behave in certain ways because they are five or eight or fourteen years old.

I resolve to parent in a way that reflects my belief that the process is as important as the product.

When I am stumped and don't know how to respond to one of my children, I promise to ask myself, "What would love do now?" I also intend to listen internally for an answer.

I resolve to recall that I can choose to see any parenting situation differently from the way I have been seeing it. I will remember that perception is always a choice.

I resolve to relax, while remembering that relaxing does not mean resigning.

I resolve to make my approach to parenting reflect the notion that raising a child is more about drawing out what already exists in a youngster rather than about putting in to fill perceived deficiencies.

I resolve to focus on the main purpose of parenting, the creation of who and what we really are as human beings.

I resolve to remember that "being right" doesn't work.

I resolve to parent as if I believe that a child's I AM (I am athletic, I am creative, etc.) is more important than his or her IQ.

I resolve to live today as if attitudes were more easily caught than taught.

I resolve to help my children and myself stay conscious of the choices we are making.

I resolve to remember the adage, "If you want a behavior, you have to teach a behavior," and I resolve to put that adage into practice in my home.

I resolve to see the hurting child in the child that hurts others.

I resolve to "be" the change I wish to see in my family.

I resolve to talk less and listen more.

I resolve to remember that experience can be messy. I will allow my children to learn from the messes they make and the cleanup that follows.

I resolve to hold my children accountable for their actions and choices with gentleness and love. I will implement consequences consistently and allow my children to experience the related, respectful, reality-based consequences that flow directly from their actions.

I resolve to make myself dispensable and assist my children in becoming increasingly in charge of themselves and their own lives.

I resolve to refrain from making my children wrong for their choices, even as I hold them accountable for their actions.

I resolve to recognize that my children are in my life as much so I can learn from them as they are so they can learn from me. I will be open to the lessons my children offer me and honor them for helping me learn and grow.

Saturday, January 6, 2007

My Hero

I have always admired my husband. I would say even since the first day we met. Today, I can officially call him my hero. He truly rescued me throughout the entire day. From an early morning with our 8 month old and 2 year old to a cramping wife on the bed, he stepped up. He put on love all day. He stayed positive. He chose love.

Honestly, I was frustrated that my two youngest were up at the crack of dawn. I wanted to sleep. I wore that on my face for a long while. Yet, Scott served me orange juice and said, "good morning, can I get you anything?" What an angel. He made us french toast and patiently had a response to each of our two year old's 87 questions.

Our day was filled with his goodness. He took the three big kids outside for an hour it seemed. They played hard with bows, arrows, and swords. He would fall to the ground, after losing a battle with one of his "enemies." Soon, those same enemies (Kalen and Julian) would come to kiss his head to revive him. Scott would jump back up and run after them.

Just after the two little ones were sleeping he takes Julian out to the bookstore for a little time of reading. During this visit, Julian decides he wants a rather large book by an author he is familar with. Scott convinces Julian to wait and they can look for it at the library. As soon as they get home, Scott looks for the book at both libraries in town. He soon tells me he wants to take the three big kids to the ASU library to get the book he promised Julian. He made it clear to me that he wanted to follow through with what he had told Julian. What an honorable man!

Later, after supper he reads to the children on the couch as I clean up the kitchen. This is when I was able to really reflect over all the days events. I ask myself, "how can so much heroism happen here in this home in one day?" It became clear to me that my husband chose to love unconditionally today. He put on love in the most amazing way. He met our needs and loved us even when we were unlovable.

How many of us can say that we love unconditionally? It is an amazing gift to be loved unconditionally. I find it very inspiring. I admire my husband. I can honestly say that he is rescuing me from myself and the circumstances that surround me daily, just like Jesus,

Thursday, January 4, 2007

Capturing Christmas








Our Christmas 2006 was indeed joyful. We will take away many memories from this special time with family.

We started our holiday off right with a performance by Madelyn in the Nutcracker. She did an amazing job and really enjoyed herself. We are so proud of you, Madelyn!

The kids and I tried to learn some carols throughout the month of December. It would crack me up to be walking through the house and hear Kalen (our two year old) singing "Go Tell It On The Mountain". Of course, the chorus was repeated over and over.

We talked about the manger scene a couple of times. Curious to hear their responses, I asked them, "if you could have been there when Jesus was born, who would you have liked to have been." Madelyn replied with the angel. Julian said, "I would like to have been a shepherd." Without hesitation, Kalen said, "Jesus." Of course, the star of the show, right?

Overall, fun was had by all this Christmas. We are thankful for the time to spend with family. That was truly the greatest gift.

There are several photos of various glimpses into some gift receiving and visiting with family, such as my grandmother, my sister-in-law Shanda, my brother Ryan and his two children, Grayson and Anna Kristin.

Tuesday, January 2, 2007

UVA

"Congratulations! On behalf of the Curry School of Education it is my pleasure to offer you admission to the Ph.D. Program in Social Foundations."

This is what Scott read a week ago today from the University of Virginia. I know he will not toot his own horn about this so I would be glad to . . . WAY TO GO SCOTT!! He has been selected from a group of many qualified candidates to attend this prestigious school in Charlottesville, Virginia.

This is truly an honor to be accepted. I am very thankful, proud and excited; I know Scott is.

He is still waiting to hear back from three other schools. We will weigh his options and decide at the first of this year where we will spend the next four or more years.

I am confident in Scott. I want him to follow this dream. I know the Lord will truly honor his efforts.